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When I got married I had this innocent and extremely naïve belief that I had met the person who would enable my happiness and meet my needs. That was a deeply sincere belief. As a matter of fact, I thought that is why people got married. To have their needs met and to find happiness. After two or three years of increasingly painful and disappointing marriage, we finally reached out for help. We found help in the form of another couple who began to mentor and coach us, to literally show us that there was another way to do this thing called marriage.

I can only imagine what it’s like to go watch a movie as a family if you have boys. It probably involves action, adventure, swords and super heroes. But God has given me three lovely little ladies (pictured here), which means that when we go to the theater as a family, my experience is … well … different. It contains less action and more drama; fewer swords and more pixie dust. The “action” in the “live action” version of Cinderella that we watched last week simply meant that the movie contained real actors & actresses, rather than the original animation.

“I’ve begun to view the gospel as a verb, not just a noun (“gospeling” each other), and have become more fluent with it. It also helped me think through my own personal story and how it relates to God’s Greater story (Creation – Fall – Redemption – Re-Creation). The tangible experience of gathering to eat weekly and applying Gospel principles with each other was most compelling because I sometimes regard weekly bible studies or meetings as another thing to take me from ‘the stuff of life’. After going through the Gospel Primer with this group, I have the perspective that our family has to eat any way, so why don’t I invite others to join us?”

By mile 16 last Saturday, I knew qualifying for the Boston Marathon was not in the cards that day. Over the last four months, I’d logged 775 miles, many speed work sessions, a bunch of tempo runs, and followed the perfect taper plan to be ready for my goal: Run the Carmel Marathon in Indiana and qualify for Boston. My personal best marathon was only 4 minutes away from this goal. I felt very ready.

I’m convinced that disciples are made in the overlap of three essential elements: gospel, relationship and mission. These elements are what I like to call “discipleship DNA.” They are the building blocks of transformational spiritual growth. It’s helpful to picture these three elements (gospel, family and mission) as three legs of a stool. Take out one of these essential elements and any approach to discipleship is likely to be unbalanced.

I have a love of woodworking and one of my recently developed hobbies is making rustic wooden clocks out of reclaimed pallet wood. I’ve discovered great satisfaction in taking something old, broken, stained and discarded and turning it into something beautiful, unique and useful. I have a love of woodworking and one of my recently developed hobbies is making rustic wooden clocks out of reclaimed pallet wood. I’ve discovered great satisfaction in taking something old, broken, stained and discarded and turning it into something beautiful, unique and useful. It wasn’t long ago when my twelve-year-old daughter asked me, “Daddy, can I help you make a clock?”

As a little girl, my wife Heidi always thought that one day she would be a missionary. She had visions of moving overseas, learning a new language – possibly living in the jungles of South America or among the unreached people of East Asia. A REAL missionary!

Every December, Heidi and talk and pray about a “Family Word for the Year” for the coming year. It’s a word that we write up on our white board in the kitchen for the boys to see, and we talk about often – so this ends up being a word that we both feel is necessary to focus on for that particular season in our family’s life. With four boys under the age of 12, we go to this word often!

“Gospel Fluency”: “Our ability to speak and display the gospel in natural and effective ways in any situation in life, leading to transformation and restoration.” Is God stirring something in you that might lead you to become more fluent in the gospel? Consider joining the conversation – the beginning of a journey that will take the rest of your life.

Our hope is that through one of the reading plans below, or one of your own making, you will begin to experience in your own life the power of God’s Word—to accomplish all He desires for you, in you, and through you. Most importantly, being transformed by the renewing of our minds by His written, living and active Word.